Whining

I feel as though I can really appreciate this singer.

Some people whine whenever things go bad. Some people cry when people leave them (Kanye) or when they have to leave people (Fergie). Some singers make a career out of whining (Swift).

Whining doesn't solve anything other than to bond two people together in negativity. It makes the world a worse place.

This song/video is about a girl who gets a "sharp knife" stabbed in her heart by a boy and rather than make an annoying song about how horrible men are or how relationships suck, or how you don't know what you have until you've lost it. She refers back to a classic poem by Tennyson about how sometimes it kills you when your heart is broken. --She doesn't blame anyone. In fact, most people think this song is about dying young.

Sometimes, even though you're saying the same thing, the way you say it can change the entire dynamic and people can respect what you're saying more.